Fortunately I didn't believe the lady that said I had to go get the car in NJ and tow it to MD to check the VIN....like 6hrs of towing saved.
I have a corrected title!!....finally after 1.5 months of BS....all for a typo in the model number..... Thank you all for your advice and putting up with me....maybe my adventure in motor vehicle jail will help someone else avoid going thru a similar nightmare....