In a post I just put out, the guy at work I invited our to the parking lot to duke it out and he just sat at his bench cowering. He had a real bad habit of talking about people behind their backs, accusing them of actions they never did. When my father died, he came to the funeral uninvited. I asked him what the hell he was doing here and he said he did it out of respect for my father. I was blowed away, I never understood him at all. In order to find the funeral location, he had to find it in the newspaper. Maybe he was impressed with my father's Army record that was posted in the paper, served in three wars, WW2, Korea, and Vietnam. Whatever his reason, he was surely a Narcissist and people avoided him like the plague except me, I made him accountable. I don't put up with his's kind **** from anybody. Vet
Some folks are wired different. I like trying to figure them out; sometimes you make friends or at least understand and respect them. Sometimes ‘they just fuckin’ ain’t right.’ Patrick
Believe me Patrick, The guy I was dealing with just ain't right like you said. I've been in the military, loads machine shops and the CIA. So I have loads experience with all kinds of people, domestic and foreign. 98% are fine folks, but once in a while you run into the 2% that are just plain misfits and narcissistic. If you happen to run into one, it can be an experience you never forget or want to encounter again. Vet
I mean im very easy to get along with. Dude was just out there. He got sideways w me on my new facebook cause a guy asked about swapping in a overdrive in a 61 bubble top too i totally forgot about it. He goes nuts if the car isnt bone stock. He accused me of not knowing anything about a dynaflows when dad had two lol. I was basically like i dont like dynaflows tf you want me to say. I like a od trans. :shrug:
It gets good on page 7.... http://www.v8buick.com/index.php?th...ice-up-the-auction-with-this-gal.78192/page-7
Keith (@My3Buicks) & I had a dustup on here. I'd steer clear of his posts & tbh I started it - For a "no politics" site I'd about had it with his "proud *******" sub-heading (I've never blocked anyone on any SM platform) after he made excuses on a thread I started for a drugged up reporter messing up a couple cars at a car show where he had early access for a story. A former "super mod" deleted my post (this was all around 3-4AM IIRC) but not before Keith saw it & replied & PM'd me. I was hot about my post being deleted & jumped off here for about 6 mos. This must've been fall 2019 as when I returned, we had the "Covid forum" (which I avoided that s-show too) but did see where he'd been booted. The mod that deleted my post was booted not too long after IIRC. No loss on either.
If you all think it's difficult occasionally dealing with a narcissist and control freak, try growing up with one as a parent. I finally had enough one night after he assaulted my then 17 year old sister in front of me. I handled it using VET's method. He never bothered me again. Those years helped me realize it's much easier to accept when you're wrong and that others have more knowledge than you. Those who persist in bothering or harassing me get ghosted stat. I've probably been ghosted a few times too. IDGAFF either. Found it amazing how quickly many disagreements end when one side walks away. Anyway, VET, here's a couple of photos of Brad's GSX I took in 2009 for your enjoyment.
The lighting on that bottom pic is interesting. Looks like light grey/silver above the stripe. I like it.
Keith I never knew he was gone I blocked him one of the only people I couldn’t take on here I figured it was just me that he rubbed the wrong way