My Dad

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  1. steve abbate

    steve abbate original owner gsx

    My dad has passed away last Wednesday the 23rd. He was the original owner of my gsx. As I remember he told us how he walked into the local Buick dealer and said he wanted to order a gsx. The salesmen in the dealership did not know what he was talking about. My dad had seen a gsx at a promotional event in New York City and knew he had to have one. So he brought in a brochure that showed the car and he was able to order one. He traded in his 1969 gs and ordered a yellow non stage automatic. He didn’t want a/c cause he said it ‘robbed’ horsepower. He ordered am/fm radio and a rear defroster and that’s about it. I think he said he paid 4600.00 back in 1970 which of course was a lot of money back then. He said when the car came in around march, all the people in the dealership came out to see it. Over the years that gsx was the family car. We lived in Richmond hill NY at the time and had a garage to keep it in. Then we moved to ozone park NY and the car spent about 3 years in the elements til we moved out to Long Island. From then on the car was always garaged. At the time my dad still worked in Brooklyn and had to commute back and forth in this car. I remember this car having G60 snow tires on it well into the early 80s. We would routinely use this car to take ‘stuff’ to the Brookhaven waste facility commonly known as the ‘dumps’. He would take thick blankets and lay them on the trunk and load up whatever he needed to and tie down the ‘stuff’ with rope that went around the rear spoiler and around the bumper guards. After all this was the family car and not worth the incredible amounts they are worth today. We also went to plant nurseries and loaded bushes and plants and small trees in the trunk and brought them back to the house. Around 1982 my mother started driving the car back and forth to work since she worked closer to home. I remember many people following my mother home asking if the car was for sale. Looking back I guess it seemed crazy to use the car in that way but he used to say it’s just a car lol. He was a great man and life will be forever different without him. Thanks for letting me say a few kind words…………….
     
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  2. breakinbuick11

    breakinbuick11 Platinum Level Contributor

    Thanks for sharing. Sorry for your loss
     
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  3. gsfred

    gsfred Founders Club Member

    Sorry for your loss, but what a great treasure he left for you. The GSX, but mostly the memories that he and the car made.
     
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  4. BrunoD

    BrunoD Looking for Fast Eddie

    Hi Steve,sorry for your loss,we all loose somebody in our lifetime.but that does not make hurt any less.Enjoy the car as your father did,no matter what he used it for.Bruno.
     
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  5. sean Buick 76

    sean Buick 76 Buick Nut

    Wonderful story and my condolences
     
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  6. Jim Weise

    Jim Weise EFI/DIS 482

    Wow, great story, and your lucky that your folks had the foresight to not sell the car off. As long as you own it, you still have a tangible piece of him with you.

    Been there.. lost my Dad 10 years ago.. I still think about him, but as time passes the urge to pick up the phone and call him to ask a question has faded. It took at least a year to come to grips with the reality that he was actually gone, several more to get used to the idea.

    Wishing nothing but good things for you and your family going forward.

    JW
     
  7. Bens99gtp

    Bens99gtp Well-Known Member

    Sorry for your loss.........I lost my father 2 years ago. Great memories that I hope never fade for you
     
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  8. hwprouty

    hwprouty Platinum Level Contributor

    RIP Sir.
    Good story, memories will always be with you.
     
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  9. Chuck Bridges

    Chuck Bridges Well-Known Member

    May all your memories be positive. We all look back on our fathers and, well, miss them, and realize how blessed we were to have them. I am sorry for your loss, I know the pain well.
     
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  10. steve abbate

    steve abbate original owner gsx

    Thank you everyone. I appreciate it. Unfortunately I let that car go due to unforeseen circumstances in my life in 2010. But the memories will be with me forever. Again thank you
     
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  11. Max Damage

    Max Damage I'm working on it!

    Sorry for your loss, thanks for sharing those sweet memories.
     
  12. 73 Stage-1

    73 Stage-1 Dave

    My Dad passed away last August, and if you substitute a 1973 Stage-1 in North Jersey for your '70 GSX, the story is eerily familiar - snow tires, hauling any and everything (kids, little league teams and bags of bats and equipment), towing, it was even used to pull out a tree stump. It was my Mom that actually put the most miles on it.

    I am sorry to hear about your Dad. No other way to say it - it sux...
     
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  13. 71GS455N25

    71GS455N25 Silver Level contributor

    Awesome story! I'm sorry for your loss. God bless
     
  14. Waterboy

    Waterboy Mullet Mafia since 6/20

    Thanks for sharing your story! Sounds like you had some mighty fine memories. Hold them dear to your heart. My dad‘s been gone nine years now. I think about him every day.
     
  15. telriv

    telriv Founders Club Member

    My Dad's been gone for close to 40 years now & I still think about him fondly.
    THE MEMORIES NEVER GO AWAY!!!!

    Tom T.
     
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  16. Chuck Bridges

    Chuck Bridges Well-Known Member

    It has been 32 years since my Dad passed away. Even though he was technically my step-dad, he was the man that I strive to be, and strive to still have him proud of me. He tried, and tried, to teach me mechanics, simply wasn't interested. I was a nerd and loved books. He never understood, but always supported me. These are the memories that I shall always treasure. These are the things we must hold on to.
     
  17. CJay

    CJay Supercar owner Staff Member

    Im so sorry Steve. Your one of only 3 people I know thst grew up with a GSX as the family daily driver. My sincere condolences my friend
     
  18. LARRY70GS

    LARRY70GS a.k.a. "THE WIZARD" Staff Member

    My deepest condolences Steve,

    Lost my Dad in 2015, he wasn't really a car guy, but I have fond memories of him helping me with my first Buick, a 1972 Skylark. I let him drive it once, and he remarked afterward, "That's a fast car, be careful":) I think about him all the time.
     
  19. BQUICK

    BQUICK Gold Level Contributor

    Sorry for your loss...
    In college in the 70s I lived in a motel in Hampton Bays, LI and woke up one sunny saturday morning to a yellow GSX in the parking space right outside my door. First one I had ever seen. Talked to the man for a while about it. Wonder if it was your Dad?
     
  20. CJay

    CJay Supercar owner Staff Member

    47 years for me and I still think about him every day.
     

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