Don't wait

Discussion in 'Help From Above' started by 19richie66, Dec 16, 2012.

  1. 19richie66

    19richie66 4:13

    Grab the ones closest to you and tell them you love them.My father had a massive heart attack and passed away yesterday.I got a big hug and kiss from him when he left my house the day before and the last words I heard him say was "I love you son". That's all I needed to hear.I love you too Dad.
     
    Last edited: Dec 19, 2012
  2. DaWildcat

    DaWildcat Platinum Level Contributor

    Richie,

    First of all I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I'm very glad that he told you those words, I hope that will stick with you for the rest of your life in a very good way. I heard the same from my mom before she passed and I cherish that.

    Prayers for you and family and friends for the difficult times to come now, family and friends will make it hurt a little less.

    Devon
     
  3. no1oldsfan

    no1oldsfan Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot possibly use the right words. I too had a last experience with my Mom that was moving like yours. I told my Mom that I loved her and we had a laugh. Thought for sure I would have another moment with her. Looking back there was no better way to really say goodbye. I know that may not help but she makes me laugh still to this day. I am who I am because of her. I so feel your pain. Not exactly in your shoes but I will have extra prayers for you and all attached. Keep your faith that there is no pain and that we will all see one another again. Peace and prayers.
     
  4. mrolds69

    mrolds69 "The Cure"

    Richie...I'm sorry for your loss...my condolences to you + your family. I'll pray for him.
     
  5. JESUPERCAT

    JESUPERCAT No Slow Boat

    Richie I am very sorry to hear how your day was yesterday. The morning my Mom was killed in a crash she told me how much she loved me and was proud of me. At the time we rarely told each other how we felt it was just assumed how we felt. She died just an hour or so after we talked on the phone. I think of that call often and it still makes me happy that we spoke about how we felt. It is amazing how a few simple words can make you feel years later. I miss her dearly but I am very proud to be her son.
    I hope you remember what was said to you for your lifetime, it will make you smile in time.
    Praying for you in this time of separation.
     
  6. 69GS400s

    69GS400s ...my own amusement ride!

    Richie - My heart is saddened to hear of your father's passing - My condolences are offered to you and your family

    ... My wife comes from a family where where expressions of love are not often spoken - it is just their way. My Family is different and always has been - my mother ends every phone call with "I love you" ... and I return the gesture.

    My wife once asked me "Whats that about .. always saying I love You ?"

    I answered that it is nice to hear even though I know it is felt .. it doesn't "cost" anything :Do No: and what if it were the last time I heard her voice ? this was several years ago ...

    Just last night I heard her end her conversation with her mom saying "I love you .." and it made me smile.
     
    Last edited: Dec 17, 2012
  7. cstanley-gs

    cstanley-gs Silver Mist

    Richie man... Im so saddened to hear this news....
    my condolences
     
  8. 19richie66

    19richie66 4:13

    Thank you guys for the kind words and prayers.I have this big,gaping hole in my life and I get this helpless feeling evey now and then.Found out his heart attack could have been prevented if he would have went to the doctor the week before but he just thought he had a cold and was short of breath because of congestion.Hindsights 20/20 you know.I really have to get my car going now as he gave it to me last year for my birthday.He told me saturday as he was leaving," you have to get this thing going so I can ride in it before I pass on".Had no idea it would be the next day.Anyways tomorrow is the memorial and friday is his funeral.I appreciate the prayers for strength.It's nice to know you have people out there that care enough to stop and take a little time out to think of someone else they don't even know.Take care,Richie
     
  9. urbancowboy0307

    urbancowboy0307 Silver Level contributor

    I kiss my daughter, Wife and dogs goodbye every day when I leave the house, and I do the same when I return.

    Life is so unpredictable.

    Richie sorry to hear about your loss.
    Your family is in my prayers.
     
  10. ubushaus

    ubushaus Gold Level Contributor

    Sometimes the best advice is the simplest. I often forget to tell my parents (both 90), and my wife that I love them. I tell my kids every day. What's up with that?

    Richie, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You now have a goal to serve your father's memory - get that car on the road!

    Like the rest of your v8Buick brothers, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
     
  11. Rusty Davenport

    Rusty Davenport Silver Level contributor

    Sorry to hear of your loss of your Dad,his last words must be of great comfort now and forever,praying for your family.
     
  12. Ken Mild

    Ken Mild King of 18 Year Resto's

    Richie my condolences to you buddy.
     
  13. gsfred

    gsfred Founders Club Member

    Richie, sorry to hear of your loss. We have all had one of these, some more than others. Lost my dad and my 1st wife within a month, but had the luck of being able to say goodbye to both of them. When my father inlaw passed I told by brother inlaw to take the time and say goodbye. He did and thanks me to this day. Best you can do is to honor him, keep him in your thoughts. You have the Buick that was apparently important to him. Thats kind of special.
    Fred
     
  14. LAKOTA

    LAKOTA Sungakan yankahaypi mita

    Richie,

    Very sad time for you and your family...prayers.


    Patrick
     
  15. bhambulldog

    bhambulldog 1955 76-RoadmasterRiviera

    I'm sorry for your loss.
    Praying for you and your family:pray:
     
  16. jay3000

    jay3000 RIP 1-16-21

    I had no idea when I clicked on this thred that I would wipe tears from my eyes..

    Yep.. Hold everyone close..
     
  17. hwprouty

    hwprouty Platinum Level Contributor

    Richie, so sorry for your loss. It's only been since March since I lost my Dad. My prayers are with you and your family in the weeks to come.
     
  18. vonwolf

    vonwolf Silver Level contributor

    I'm really sorry for you loss Rich, the short time we talked you brought your Dad up quite a few times so I know how much he meant to you. I lost my Father about 10 years ago at this time same as my Wife, its a tough time for it to happen. You are very fortunate to hear those words from him the last time you spoke, hold on to that memory it will give you strength in the future
     

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