My wife

Discussion in 'Help From Above' started by SS-TRUCK, Sep 8, 2008.

  1. SS-TRUCK

    SS-TRUCK Stage 1 X

    Last Monday we went to hospital for my wife to have cancer surgery . When the surgery was over the doctor came out smiled and told me he got it all and we were cancer free . Well today we went back for post-op check and then told us he was wrong we still have a very agressive cancer . So now we have to get a new game plan . That news hit like a brick wall as we had breathing a sigh of relief after being told he got all the cancer out . Then to top that was told one of my health insurances was not accepted by doctor and one other medical facility . And I am in the middle of selling and buying another house . Which way is up ?????????
     
  2. moleary

    moleary GOD Bless America

    Tough news. Do you have other family support around to help you both stay strong? My prayers are with you and yours. MarkO
     
  3. SS-TRUCK

    SS-TRUCK Stage 1 X

    Mark we have 2 sons but they I am afraid will not be a lot of help , for emotional reasons . We have a couple of good friends to talk with but they too have their own problems and I can't ask them for much help . So I just gotta stand tough and hold this weight on my shoulders .
     
  4. 71customConv

    71customConv Platinum Level Contributor

    Mike - I will say a little prayer for your wife, you and your sons tonight.

    We have a good friend that had an agressive bone cancer and he is in remission. Good things happen to those that want to fight and have a smile.

    Don't forget to smile at the good things. You need to focus on them now.
     
  5. Mister T

    Mister T Just truckin' around

    Mike, I cannot imagine what you both are currently going through. Although I'm not much on the prayer thing, I will nevertheless send some positive vibes your way.

    There is always a way, the path is difficult to find sometimes, but you will find it.
     
  6. Poppaluv

    Poppaluv I CALL WINNERS!!!

    Geez Mike, that's a double whammy! Brandy and I are thinking of y'all...
     
  7. ss4825

    ss4825 Well-Known Member

    Mike, We will have you and your family in our prayers.
     
  8. adamst56

    adamst56 Well-Known Member

    I am sure sorry to hear about anyone with this tough of a situation, let alone a Buick brother. I will offer prayers and send you my best wishes.
    Just because the doctor does not accept your insurance, can't you file the claims with the insurance company yourself? I would be real disappointed if the doctor's office wouldn't work with you on the timing to get them paid.
     
  9. Floydsbuick

    Floydsbuick Well-Known Member

    How are you and the Wife doing? I am guilty of not keeping youns in my prayers as much as I should. But today I am making a special point to keep you both in my prayers. May you have a peaceful day!
     
  10. Evans Ward

    Evans Ward Well-Known Member

    Our Lord is the Great Physician and prayers are lifted up for your wife and family! He is Lord of Lords and King of Kings and hears our prayers. May Christ comfort and provide strength for you at this difficult time. Lean on the rock of Jesus Christ.
     
  11. 1 bad gs

    1 bad gs Well-Known Member

    mike, praying hard for you and your family.
     
  12. SS-TRUCK

    SS-TRUCK Stage 1 X

    Thanks guys , much appreciated . We went to see two oncologists last week and have to see another doctor next Monday and then back to surgeon to schedule next surgery of at least two more needed . Looks like a rough bumpy road ahead . We plan to smooth it out though and ride in style .
     
  13. Rusty Davenport

    Rusty Davenport Silver Level contributor

    Mike,You and your family are in my prayers.
     
  14. henry

    henry Well-Known Member

    Mike, I've been through what you are facing. Sounds like you have the right idea about finding a doctor you are both comfortable with. I know that makes a difference. Take it one day at a time, & know that I and others will be praying for your family. Scott
     
  15. carmantx

    carmantx Never Surrender

    Prayers for you and your family Mike. And remember, God's shoulders are much stronger than yours, so let him carry the load so you can focus on the care of your family.
     
  16. Dana/Beth Andrews

    Dana/Beth Andrews Huc accedit zambonis!

    Mike,
    I am so sorry I missed this thread. Please know Diana and yourself are in our thoughts & prayers.

    Beth
     
  17. TheBuickNut

    TheBuickNut Well-Known Member

    may God be with you both

    My prayers are being lifted up :pray: :pray:
     
  18. gsxnut

    gsxnut Well-Known Member

    I hear this type of story way to often these days. I will keep you and your family in my thougts and prayers.

    God Bless,

    Mark
     
  19. SS-TRUCK

    SS-TRUCK Stage 1 X

    Beth read the PM I sent you .
     
  20. GS464

    GS464 Hopelessly Addicted

    Mike:

    Situation sucks. My wife and I have been going through treatments, most of which have been pretty effective, for about a year and a half now. At first it is definitely overwhelming, with lot's to learn, an insane amount of information coming at you all at once, hugely important decisions to be made with what feels like damn little information and the rest of your life has to go on all at the same time.

    People seem to tell me pretty often to remember to take care of the caretaker, so I'll pass that on to you.

    If you feel like you need to talk to someone that truly understands, feel free to drop me a note or PM me. Don't feel like I already have enough to worry about. Shared loads are a lot easier to handle.
     

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