hes at landstuhl hospital germany pretty sick going thru chemo for intestinal absesses but i think its worse he just turned 58 so thats not old Ive used up most of my sick leave so I cant fly overthere and money is tight for i have a 3 mnth old first grad child for him i hoping he gets better so he can meet him and play with him there was many times that I bore the brunt of his anger but I have forgiven him and he must of done a decent job as I never ended up in jail. he changed alot after the gulf war and I really think that is what made him sick now he was there for over 1 year